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TO CREATE YOUR OWN WEDDING MAGIC LET YOUR WEDDING MATCH YOUR STYLE. Chris and Kyle are big Dr. Who fans and the TARDIS was on the guest book canvas that was to be framed after the wedding. (photo by Hannah Woodard Photography)






Welcome! This site is a tribute to my many wedding couples who have created unique and beautiful surroundings for their weddings. Their creativity and ingenuity reflected their personalities and together we have often created new ways to modernize old traditions.

If you are looking for a minister for your wedding in the Triangle area of Raleigh, Durham and Chapel Hill, NC, contact me for a free consultation. Together we can create a ceremony that reflects your love, your personality and your dreams for your future.

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Lauren and Evan - A Winter Wedding at the Haw River Ballroom - Love, Laughter and Unique DIY Touches

I so love this picture of Lauren and Evan. It captures the special spark they share. Each has such a great sense of humor and they sprinkle it liberally throughout their lives. You can tell they have a lot of fun together and so does everyone around them. It came as no surprise, therefore, that their humor would show itself in their wedding planning, their vows and in all their unique wedding decorations. 

Taking place in December, but not wanting to use a holiday wedding theme, they chose instead to go with a classic winter white, cranberry red and grey color scheme. And, my goodness, didn’t it look stunning!

Their dog was the Ring Bearer

Bridesmaids carried muffs rather than bouquets - perfect for a winter wedding!

They chose the Haw River Ballroom as their wedding location. Tucked back along the Haw river in Saxapahaw, NC, this unique building is a concert and event venue space and perfect for those who are looking for something different. That made it absolutely perfect for Lauren and Evan.

Love how this building glows at night.

The inside, set up for the wedding.

They decided to have the wedding on the stage with the red curtain. Evan’s dad built the incredible wooden wall that became the backdrop for the ceremony and it was really beautiful.

As you can see, their florist, Wylde Flowers, decorated the wall in style. They also made a beautiful bouquet for Lauren and exquisite boutonnieres for Evan and his Groomsmen.

During the ceremony, Evan and his Best Man waited on the ground level for the rings to arrive. Once the Best Man had taken the rings from the Ring Dog’s collar, he joined us on the stage.

With this Bride and Groom being Lauren and Evan, it was inevitable that they would make each other laugh during their vows. And they did. It was special for all of us.

At the end of the ceremony, the happy family went out the aisle as the trio they are. 

Most of the photographs had been taken before the wedding so Lauren and Evan could immediately join the guests upstairs for the cocktail hour. 

The cocktail hour was happening on the upper level.

As the room was being readied for the reception, the band, Peter Lamb and the Wolves started playing. Nice.

Set up for the reception with the band on the stage in the background.

I can honestly say I have never seen the Haw River Ballroom looking as beautiful and sparkly as it did that night, thanks in no small part to Lauren and Evan’s design vision. Take a peek at all their special touches... 

Clever table cards that Lauren made herself. 
Each animal was standing on a sliver of a geode.

A perfect Cake Topper on a cake by Sugarland

A hot chocolate bar with mugs as guest favors

A Polaroid Photo Guest Book

They even had the non-dancers covered.

The gold accents on the tables caught the light beautifully.

After dinner, the dancing and partying began in earnest and it is obvious that a great time was had by all.

It was such a special evening and as they left as husband wife, the happy couple - along with the Ring Dog - made their final exit through a hail of dry snowflakes tossed by their guests.

Lauren and Evan, a toast to you. It was a joy to be part of your fun and stylish wedding that was such a perfect reflection of who you are, and who you are together. 

May all the roads you travel bring you joy and laughter and many fun memories to savor all your lives. 


A special thanks goes to Lauren and Evan’s photographers, Carolyn and Geoff, who have allowed the use of their wonderful photos here. They are the dynamic husband and wife team of Carolyn Scott Photography and they, too, have a fun sense of humor. It is easy to understand why Lauren and Evan chose to work with them. Carolyn and Geoff have written a great blog post about this wedding, with many more photos of the event than I have shown here. I do highly recommend you take the time to read their post and check out all the photos. 

I have worked with Carolyn and Geoff many times at weddings and love their traditional-but-with-a-unique-twist approach. I was honored they chose me as their minister for their own fun, Zombie Jamboree wedding. If you would like to read about it, here is the blog post I wrote.

Others on hand to help make this wedding and reception the great success it was...

Patti Gallivan - Wedding Coordinator - Saxapahaw General Store Catering - she handled everything with humor and professional skill

Caterer - Saxapahaw General Store


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Now That You Are Engaged... A Wedding Planning Timeline

This fun graphic, courtesy of Silvia Zvekan of Bwedding Invitations, lays out a very practical timeline of 43(!) steps to help you with your wedding planning. For those of us in the Triangle and Triad areas of North Carolina, however, I would suggest a few revisions;

1 - Book your photographer, your wedding planner and any special transportation to and from your wedding much earlier than Silvia recommends. These wedding professionals book up very early in our area and it may be the same where you will be marrying, too.

2 - Definitely have your wedding dress ordered by no later than the 6 month mark. The sooner you find the right dress and purchase it the less stress you will be under, especially if your dress will require a fair bit of alterations. It can often take a while for your dress to be available in your size, or to allow for any special ordering involved, so do factor that in when you start dress shopping.

Silvia has written a great blog post elaborating on all 43 steps and I recommend you give her helpful post a read. You will be very glad you did. It always helps to have a plan!


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An Elopement for Art and Brenda - Love is Love at Any Age

As a minister, I get to see many expressions of love. All are touching, all warm my heart and every one of them speaks to my Soul. Brenda and Art are a perfect example of what I mean. They have found each other in their later years and are living proof that Love is not just for the young; it has no age boundaries. Love at any age brings with it the gift of a richer life to share with someone we treasure.

In deciding how best to celebrate their love, Brenda and Art realized that what they really wanted was a quiet, private ceremony that spoke of their love for each other and their religious beliefs at the core of it all. To achieve this, they decided to elope and called me to see if I could be a part of it with them. Needless to say, I was thrilled. 

The ceremony was to take place at my home and I left it up to them if they wanted to be inside or out. It had rained the day before so they chose to be inside. The rain had washed everything clean and the sunshine adding a sparkle to the air made it feel like all of Nature was shining just for them.

They both feel God has put them together and the stories they told me of their lives certainly do speak of this. Accordingly, it was very important to them that their ceremony be about faith, love and total commitment in the eyes of God. And so it was. 

Shown above are their hands after the ceremony, resting on the family Bible Brenda had brought with her.

Thank you, Brenda and Art, for including me in your sweet love story. You have touched my heart with your love and your deep, sincere connection to your faith. May your life together continue to bring you the joy and contentment that led you to my home. 


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Sara and Greg Have A Beautiful Wedding at Bay 7 in Durham

Sara and Greg are one of the nicest couples you could ever meet. There is a warmth about them individually and together, and watching them interact with each other always touched my heart. The photo above captures what I mean perfectly.

Speaking of the photo, it was taken by Robin Lin Photography and she has graciously allowed the use of her photos in this post. Many thanks to Robin and her second shooter, Stacy, for these great photos. More photos can be found in her blog post about this wedding.

I had so much fun working with Sara and Greg for their wedding but little did I know how creative - and elegant - they were going to be in their wedding decorations. I should have expected it, though, knowing them. And with the help of Erin and Tia, of Erin McLean Events, this wedding was sure to be the amazing event it totally was.

The wedding took place at Bay 7 in the historic American Tobacco Campus in downtown Durham - right across the street from the Durham Bulls Athletic Park. This has become a favorite spot for weddings, with its old brick warehouse walls, upper and lower levels, and a spacious, open floor for dining, dancing and receptions.

Before the evening began, Sara and Greg did a First Look. 

As the ceremony was getting started, Robin took these beautiful shots. The one of Sara and her dad waiting around the corner makes my heart smile.

The ceremony took place on the upper level of Bay 7, in front of one of the large windows. These photos catch the beauty of the ceremony on so many levels.

pronouncing them married

The wedding kiss is one of my favorite moments every time.

And then the happy exit as husband and wife.

Downstairs, the reception area was aglow with sparkling color, showing off their color scheme of pinks, corals and greys. Beautiful!

Look at this stunning cake by Ashley Cakes!

Their DJ Extraordinaire, Randy Bennett, of Bunn DJ Company,
wrote a blog post about this wedding. 

Robin got a photo of me with Randy

and with the glowingly happy couple.

I try to match the colors of each wedding as best I can and I was very happy that I had a soft coral prayer stole I could wear for their wedding. (Once a girl, always a girl, it seems.)

Later in the evening, Robin took this incredible shot of Sara and Greg kissing in front of the iconic Lucky Strike tower. Perfect!

Sara and Greg, I wish for you all the wonderful things Life is sure to hold in store. Your smiling, loving faces will always be with me.

Others on hand to help make this wedding such a splendid success;

Catering: Angus Barn
Hair and Makeup: POSH the Salon
Florist: TreBella
Rentals: CE Rentals
Lighting: Get Lit


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